More couples are divorcing than ever before, and this is most prevalent in the 40 – 55 age range group. Kids have often grown up and fled the nest and after 20 years of being fully occupied emotionally and financially doing their best for the young ‘uns, suddenly couples are left with the stark reality of spending the rest of their lives together.
That hirsute, 34 inch waist, great looking guy has become a bit of a slob, losing any of the charm that he possessed during the original wooing and dating. Likewise, her hair colour looks like something from a B rated Sci Fi movie, her pointy puppies have gone south and that cute bubble ass is now resembling the burgers and crisps that gradually took over from the gym sessions and fruit. Where to go from here?
Men often get the blame for the breakdown of relationships, invariably finding infatuation with the younger secretary at work and misreading fun and flirting on her part as genuine intentions. By the time he has realised this, it’s too late. House up for sale, him sleeping at his mates for a few weeks and maybe missing her roast dinners.
Likewise the ladies are equally to blame once they start to take a long hard look at their life partners. Still seeing a distorted view of themselves in the mirror as they squeeze into jeans impossibly tight, pushing their knockers northwards in a bra that promises miracles, and pasting the make-up on to cover the ‘laughter lines’, they feel that they deserve something better than weekends of football and beer drinking competitions followed by the heart attack kebabs he brings home after his pub session. 10 days in Benidorm just isn’t enough anymore. Where did the love go?
How to date in your 50’s
So, once the ink is dry on the divorce papers and reality kicks in, where does the guy with all his new found enthusiasm and recent gym membership go to date and find new love? The first obvious port of call is the online dating sites or for a quicker alternative you should book an escort service instead which is definitely more convenient.
You can ring up an agency such as honeygirlsescorts.com and have any of the gorgeous escorts arrive within an hour of your request and just like that you are already over your divorce and the woman you were currently grieving over.
As long as you have at least £100 ready to dispose then this option is a great short term solution until you find love in the world of online dating which can take some months so remember to be patient.
There is a huge element of luck here though because it is estimated that over 40% of female profiles on dating sites are actually fake. Added by the site operators to entice horny guys into their lair, they show stunning girls that are looking for older men.
Yeah, right. It soon becomes very tiring sending out countless messages that are ignored. You’ll soon realise that there’s no one there, you are talking to a computer bot half the time.
Many years ago the advice was to get out and meet people. Things have changed a little from your Mum & Dad’s days of meeting on a Saturday night at the local dance and taking it from there. People are much more demanding and the chances of bumping into your dream date in the local, standing alone at the bar are minimal at best.
Go out for a few beers with your mates to a nice pub and you are presented with couples having basket meals and cheap shiraz. Where do all the single girls go?
Gym, Club Or Pub?
Again, years ago the advice for singletons was to join a club for like minded people. Gym – maybe. You can, if you are bothered enough, lose a few pounds in the process here which will help with your quest for love, and the opportunity to jog gently behind a stunning 21 year old with an ass like an unripe peach holds a certain attraction that may help justify the £35 a month fee.
In reality this soon becomes boring. The girls all have their headphones on, listening to music that you never hear on Radio 2, then disappear after their session to the car park without casting a cursory glance your way.
Joining clubs is a tricky one. How can you possibly vet the potential candidates without actually going? You are going to feel a bit stupid joining a poetry or pottery class these days and again the women disappear at the end of the hour to be picked up by their partners.
When dating should be easier perhaps it has never been harder to find the partner of your dreams. And of course, if you are simply looking for some high quality, young and sexy female company you could always book a classy young escort for a night of fun and games. Guaranteed and on demand dating.